You might be asking yourself why I am saying that confidence is an illusion, and you would be right to do so. So many dating books talk about how important it is to be confident when approaching women.
But is that really the answer?
Let me ask you something, when you call up your best friend and ask him or her if she wants to go to the movies tonight… do you have to get your confidence level up before you call?
Let’s say you call up your friend Mark, and ask him to go out to the movies with you tonight, and he says, “Nah, I want to stay home tonight and watch TV.”
Do you feel rejected and walk away from the phone with your head down? Of course not, in fact you probably give him a hard time about it.
You might joke with him, and call him a couch potato. You might start to tell him how great the movie is that you want to go see. Hell, you might even just offer to pay for his ticket.
My point is, you don’t worry about rejection on adultfrienedfinder. It’s not a personal failure if Mark says no… in fact, you know that because this movie is going to be so good… that it’s actually his loss.
Here’s the thing that most people don’t realize. Confidence is the natural result of not having any of those fears that get in your way. People who you think are confident… really are not. They are just busy doing what they do, and NOT getting in their own way.
Are you confident that you can do your job well, no matter what your job is? Do you have to even think about it? Probably not.
You see, confidence is not necessary when you have skill and experience. There’s many ways that you can get skill and experience, and the worst way is to do it by trial and error.
The smartest way to gain skill and experience is to learn from people who have already done what you want to do. If you want to learn how to be successful with girls, then the best thing to do is learn from someone who is already successful with girls.
That’s what I’m here to do for you. I’m here to show you how to have as many women as you could ever want.
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